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      <image:caption>This quote is from Ling Ma’s book, Bliss Montage. Highly recommend.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Experiences With Borderline Personality Disorder - c-PTSD and Relationships - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Example: You used to avoid and give the silent treatment (behavior) → because you experienced cognitive distortion + interpersonal difficulty  (symptoms). →Now you will choose to  cool off before reaching out again -listen to a podcast, exercise, play video games, text a friend, etc. (new behavior pattern). You used to suppress your emotions and lash out (behavior) →because you experienced  detachment from the trauma and emotional dysregulation  (symptoms). → Now you will choose to step away and return to the conversation when grounded (new behavior pattern). You used to perform and mirror in order to avoid rejection (behavior) → because you experienced identity disturbance (symptom). →Now you will choose to determine 5 core values and journal about it before meeting someone in person (new behavior pattern).</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Events causing PTSD include: isolated acts of violence, near death experience, sudden death of a loved one, a natural disaster, and war. Events causing c-PTSD include: ongoing childhood abuse or neglect, domestic violence, verbal abuse, and sexual abuse.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Experiences With Borderline Personality Disorder - c-PTSD and Relationships - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>By labeling your trauma responses and linking them to past unwanted behavior, you increase your ability to catch yourself before behaving in a rash (and potentially regretful) way when these triggers inevitably pop up again. While the trigger chain link analysis is not a replacement for sessions with a licensed professional, the exercise can heighten your awareness so that you have a shot at changing the course of events and in turn mend your relationship in spite of your c-PTSD.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Experiences With Borderline Personality Disorder - c-PTSD and Relationships - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Examples:  You felt abandoned and rejected (emotional state), which led to avoidance/silent treatment (behavior) → You experienced cognitive distortion + interpersonal difficulty (symptoms). You felt  dissociated from your body (emotional state), which led to suppressing your emotions and lashing out (behavior). → You experienced  detachment from the trauma + emotional dysregulation (symptoms). You felt anxious and paranoid (emotional state), which led to  performing/mirroring  (behavior). → You experienced identity disturbance (symptom).</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Symptoms of c-PTSD include: Cognitive distortions - inaccurate and irrational perception of situations that manifest in intense and distorted thoughts. Examples include emotional reasoning, magical thinking, black and white thinking, catastrophizing, etc. Frequent emotional dysregulation - difficulty controlling emotions. This looks like explosive anger, persistent sadness, depression, and suicidal thoughts. Negative self-view - increased feelings of shame and guilt, which can lead to feeling alien from others. Interpersonal difficulties- a tendency to distrust others and/or gravitate toward unhealthy relationships. Detachment from the trauma - disconnecting from oneself (depersonalization) and the world around them (derealization), or suppressing and forgetting the trauma entirely. Identity disturbance -losing one's core beliefs, values, and experiencing a shaky foundational sense of self.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Experiences With Borderline Personality Disorder - c-PTSD and Relationships - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Examples:  →Not receiving a text within two hours of sending a text →Receiving negative feedback →Going on a first date</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Intrusive memories, flashbacks and/or nightmares related to the trauma. Frequent changes in mood and thinking, including feeling distant from other people and having overwhelming negative emotions . Distorted thoughts and beliefs. Avoidance of people, places, situations, or thoughts related to the trauma. Hyperarousal -this can look like  sleeplessness, hypervigilance, angry outbursts, and difficulty concentrating.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Experiences With Borderline Personality Disorder - c-PTSD and Relationships - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Examples: When not receiving a text within 2 hours of sending a text → you felt abandoned and rejected (emotional state), which led to avoiding and giving the silent treatment (behavior). When receiving negative feedback → you  dissociated from your body (emotional state), which led to suppressing your feelings and lashing out (behavior). When going on a first date → you felt anxious and paranoid (emotional state), which led to  performing and mirroring the other person’s beliefs, interests, and lifestyle in order to avoid rejection (behavior).</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Example of filling this exercise out</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Examples of potential triggers to do this exercise on</image:caption>
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